Comments on: More Tips On Resolving Conflicts http://www.mind-manual.com/blog/index.php/2008/04/06/more-tips-on-resolving-conflicts/ Figuring Out Life Together Tue, 09 Aug 2011 23:51:53 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: RT Wolf http://www.mind-manual.com/blog/index.php/2008/04/06/more-tips-on-resolving-conflicts/comment-page-1/#comment-33806 RT Wolf Tue, 21 Sep 2010 19:38:28 +0000 http://www.mind-manual.com/blog/index.php/2008/04/06/more-tips-on-resolving-conflicts/#comment-33806 When you first get an illuminating insight, it can feel like you've just solved the whole thing. After a few days, though, that feeling can fall away if the insight wasn't as deep as it could be. So keep digging. Good luck! You might want to check out Games People Play. Good book that reveals other games we play like the one you figured out you were playing. When you first get an illuminating insight, it can feel like you’ve just solved the whole thing. After a few days, though, that feeling can fall away if the insight wasn’t as deep as it could be. So keep digging. Good luck!

You might want to check out Games People Play. Good book that reveals other games we play like the one you figured out you were playing.

]]> By: geeky http://www.mind-manual.com/blog/index.php/2008/04/06/more-tips-on-resolving-conflicts/comment-page-1/#comment-33705 geeky Sat, 24 Apr 2010 04:06:05 +0000 http://www.mind-manual.com/blog/index.php/2008/04/06/more-tips-on-resolving-conflicts/#comment-33705 wow... this reveals my forever hate to my father. He beat the hell out of me when I was young. But lately after alot of clearing out on emotions. A wisdom popped out from nowhere, that he actually felt hurt by me. And actually by all the humilitaors I have met in my life. In some way or another they got hurt, and got back at me. I was seeking to be understood and approved by them (just like with my father), and ended up hating them and getting back on them in the most subtle ways. And they got angry and pissed off. I guess this goes both ways. Both are equal "guilty" of not feeling loved and understood. Thanks pal! you made a big difference confirming this. A question: my mind doesnt believe this to be the truth right away. Why is that? Why cant I just be healed after psycologicaly understanding this do you think? Much love -ben wow… this reveals my forever hate to my father. He beat the hell out of me when I was young. But lately after alot of clearing out on emotions. A wisdom popped out from nowhere, that he actually felt hurt by me. And actually by all the humilitaors I have met in my life. In some way or another they got hurt, and got back at me. I was seeking to be understood and approved by them (just like with my father), and ended up hating them and getting back on them in the most subtle ways. And they got angry and pissed off. I guess this goes both ways. Both are equal “guilty” of not feeling loved and understood. Thanks pal! you made a big difference confirming this. A question: my mind doesnt believe this to be the truth right away. Why is that? Why cant I just be healed after psycologicaly understanding this do you think? Much love -ben

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